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Life Events

Throughout our lives we will experience many different things, both good and bad. Certain situations are unique or we may not have had previous experience of them and won't know what to do. How we deal with them will not only impact on our physical and emotional health but also that of our families.

Good support networks, emotional literacy and a healthy lifestyle will enable people to process the range of emotions and difficulties encountered during these times.

Adults

To measure stress according to the Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale, the number of "Life Change Units" that apply to events in the past year of an individual's life are added and the final score will give a rough estimate of how stress affects health.

Life event

Life change units

Death of a spouse

100

Divorce

73

Marital separation

65

Imprisonment

63

Death of a close family member

63

Personal injury or illness

53

Marriage

50

Dismissal from work

47

Marital reconciliation

45

Retirement

45

Change in health of family member

44

Pregnancy

40

Sexual difficulties

39

Gain a new family member

39

Business readjustment

39

Change in financial state

38

Death of a close friend

37

Change to different line of work

36

Change in frequency of arguments

35

Major mortgage

32

Foreclosure of mortgage or loan

30

Change in responsibilities at work

29

Child leaving home

29

Trouble with in-laws

29

Outstanding personal achievement

28

Spouse starts or stops work

26

Begin or end school

26

Change in living conditions

25

Revision of personal habits

24

Trouble with boss

23

Change in working hours or conditions

20

Change in residence

20

Change in schools

20

Change in recreation

19

Change in church activities

19

Change in social activities

18

Minor mortgage or loan

17

Change in sleeping habits

16

Change in number of family reunions

15

Change in eating habits

15

Vacation

13

Christmas

12

Minor violation of law

11

Score of 300+: At risk of illness.

Score of 150-299+: Risk of illness is moderate (reduced by 30% from the above risk).

Score 150-: Only have a slight risk of illness.

Non-adults

A modified scale has also been developed for non-adults. Similar to the adult scale, stress points for life events in the past year are added and compared to the rough estimate of how stress affects health

Life Event

Life Change Units

Getting married

95

Unwed pregnancy

100

Death of parent

100

Acquiring a visible deformity

80

Divorce of parents

90

Fathering an unwed pregnancy

70

Jail sentence of parent for over one year

70

Marital separation of parents

69

Death of a brother or sister

68

Change in acceptance by peers

67

Pregnancy of unwed sister

64

Discovery of being an adopted child

63

Marriage of parent to stepparent

63

Death of a close friend

63

Having a visible congenital deformity

62

Serious illness requiring hospitalization

58

Failure of a grade in school

56

Not making an extracurricular activity

55

Hospitalization of a parent

55

Jail sentence of parent for over 30 days

53

Breaking up with boyfriend or girlfriend

53

Beginning to date

51

Suspension from school

50

Becoming involved with drugs or alcohol

50

Birth of a brother or sister

50

Increase in arguments between parents

47

Loss of job by parent

46

Outstanding personal achievement

46

Change in parent's financial status

45

Accepted at college of choice

43

Being a senior in high school

42

Hospitalization of a sibling

41

Increased absence of parent from home

38

Brother or sister leaving home

37

Addition of third adult to family

34

Becoming a full fledged member of a church

31

Decrease in arguments between parents

27

Decrease in arguments with parents

26

Mother or father beginning work

26

Score of 300+: At risk of illness.

Score of 150-299+: Risk of illness is moderate. (reduced by || 30% from the above risk)

Score 150-: Slight risk of illness.



 
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